"Black, Brown, & Yellow" is a blog that I have created that discusses topics that you may or may not find "blog worthy". The title "Black, Brown, & Yellow" is a reflection of the way that the African-American society classifies African-American women. However, the topics being discussed will not only focus on society or politics but will vary from fashion, books, reality shows, to music. Enjoy my thoughts...
Sunday, March 6, 2011
WOMAN aka Support System
As much as men behave like their afraid of relationships and commitment, they will NEVER let a SMART women go. Yes! Most men are stupid, and YES most men (if not all) are selfish, but once they recognize your worth they become protective and appreciative. Once a man knows for certain that his lady is loyal and is committed to him, he will never let her go. If he does, (because most men are stupid) he will find his way back.
Men just want to be supported, they want to feel loved without actually hearing it. Men want to feel like they have a place they're welcomed at. But MOST of all, a man wants a woman to make him feel like a MAN! A women’s ego cannot be bigger than a man’s ego! I repeat: A WOMAN’S EGO CANNOT BE BIGGER THAN A MAN’S EGO! It just won’t work.
Once a man has a women who is down for him, he will always do what needs to be done to make sure she is happy. Women need to let men fuck up. Women need to allow men to re-recognize that a “down bitch” is super hard to find. A woman who is in constant competition with her man will sure enough be a lonely woman. Our role as WOMEN, is to be their emotional support system. Women need to be there when he needs you and not provoke and bring him down. How is a man supposed to have high self-esteem when his lady just got through telling him how much of a lame he is? Men are easy to please ONCE you’ve found out what his emotional needs are. Figuring that out is the hard part BUT, once you’ve got it, you’ve got him!
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so i read this post about a few times and must say that i cant disagree. besides the fact that i feel you need to write a book because i will be your number one supporter, this right here should be the one page fact sheet to every (man and woman) relationship. if females were aware of this some relationship would never come to a demise.
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