Studded Heels...GETCHO LIFE!

Pick of the Week

As the summer time approaches we need to get our beach outfits ready...I have a lil something for everyone. If you've eaten a little more than you should've this past winter - I have a swimsuit for you. If you feel like you have the biggest bewbs in the world (I know the feeling all too well) I have a bathing suit for you. Lastly, if you hate your "thunder thighs" I, my friend have a suit even for you :)


This bathing suit is very cute and young. The floral print represents the 70's theme that this summer is all about. The one shoulder top sets off the entire suit. Ladies: DO wear this suit of you have small bewbs. You don't want your double d's falling out of the top piece of this suit.


Please pay attention to the bathing suit and NOT the model. I love this suit because it is a modernized 70's themed bathing suit. It has all the components of fringe, buttons and a high waist. This suit will best fit a woman who has a slight pug in her stomach but great thighs and a nice rack. DO NOT wear this if you have really big legs and a huge stomach. This one piece is adorable and trendy.


This bathing suit is my ABSOLUTE favorite. Her body looks amazing in this red piece. The bathing suit flatters her curves. The fringe off the shoulder top embraces her waist line. Plus the cut of the bathing suit isn't too high up, so her legs don't look bigger than they are. Everywoman - plus sized or not should own this suit. I truly adore this bathing suit to NO end!!!


How cute is this bathing suit???? I've never seen a suit like this, well...until now of course. Any woman with big breasts will SLAY in this suit. One; it is low cut, which will make your breasts look smaller. Two; it has fringe sleeves which take a lot of attention off the breasts. And three; the suit is made to suck in and slim down the midsection. This bathing suit is what I call a fabulous find.


Take your pick. Which suit suits your body type???




This is my favorite Rihanna swim suit. Her body slays in this suit. This pink bathing two piece is cute, fun, pink, flirty, sexy and most of all FLATTERING. Well done Ri!

Painless Platforms

If you know anything about me, you'll know that I LOVESSS my heels. The reason I love my heels so much is because I've discovered a trick to make wearing 'em a little more ummm...can I say pleasant? Yes, PLEASANT it is!!! High heels aren't always comfortable and they destroy the look of your feet after years of wear and tear but, PLATFORM heels can help take some of that pain away. PlATFORMS, are my secret to painless shoes! The platform takes most of the stress away from the balls of my feet and allow the pressure from my weight to be placed on the P L A T F O R M !!! Not only are platform heels magical, but they are easier to walk in. There is nothing worse than a sexy woman walking like a duck in her heels because her feet went numb from the pain of PLATFROMless heels *crosses leg, files nail, and gives the "I told you" look*. LOL!!! Women were created to be sexy because we are, of course WOMEN! Experiment with some platforms on your next trip to Steve Madden and you'll discover that Alima ain't never told you wrong.

WOMAN aka Support System

As much as men behave like their afraid of relationships and commitment, they will NEVER let a SMART women go. Yes! Most men are stupid, and YES most men (if not all) are selfish, but once they recognize your worth they become protective and appreciative. Once a man knows for certain that his lady is loyal and is committed to him, he will never let her go. If he does, (because most men are stupid) he will find his way back.

Men just want to be supported, they want to feel loved without actually hearing it. Men want to feel like they have a place they're welcomed at. But MOST of all, a man wants a woman to make him feel like a MAN! A women’s ego cannot be bigger than a man’s ego! I repeat: A WOMAN’S EGO CANNOT BE BIGGER THAN A MAN’S EGO! It just won’t work.

Once a man has a women who is down for him, he will always do what needs to be done to make sure she is happy. Women need to let men fuck up. Women need to allow men to re-recognize that a “down bitch” is super hard to find. A woman who is in constant competition with her man will sure enough be a lonely woman. Our role as WOMEN, is to be their emotional support system. Women need to be there when he needs you and not provoke and bring him down. How is a man supposed to have high self-esteem when his lady just got through telling him how much of a lame he is? Men are easy to please ONCE you’ve found out what his emotional needs are. Figuring that out is the hard part BUT, once you’ve got it, you’ve got him!

D'Angelo - Untitled

D'Angelo. Untiled (How Does It Feel).
His body. His voice. His Hair. His backkk!!! It takes a certain kind of woman to truly appreciate a man's BACK. There is no denying that D'Angelo was a movement back in the day. He had that soul singing, incense burning, ganja smoking look about him, and I couldn't get enough. When this video came on, women across the world stopped what they were doing and payed close attention to their television screens. My momma n'em had Al Green and we had D'Angelo.

Ladies, you're welcome.

Such Liars!!!

I find it amazing how sex changes the relationship between two people in a matter of seconds (NO PUN INTENEDED). A man will bend over backwards, deal with bullshyt, deprive himself of happiness in some cases just to enter the vagina of the woman he wants. I was told that if a man wants to have sex with a woman, he doesn’t need to like her, he just puts up a front to gain access to her vagina. If a man wants to have sex with a woman he will lie, deceive, and deny her of the truth in order to get what he wants. If a man wants to have sex with a woman he becomes the complete opposite of who he is in order to sleep with her. This may be old news to you all but I’m flabbergasted. Not because I didn’t know this, not because I’m angry, but because me (the woman) has absolutely no say in what is transpiring. We are lied to and are forced to make decisions that have no concrete basis behind it. That’s some straight up bullshyt! This is why I tell my friends and sometimes strangers, never to sleep with a man until YOU (THE WOMAN) are ready. So when he turns into another person five minutes later you can always say “the decision was mine”. IM. SO. OVER. MEN. AND. THEIR. BULLSHYT. … thanks for reading readers, I had to get that off my chest…carry on